so my boss is getting married tomorrow. i was VERBALLY invited, but never received an invitation with specifics. i know what he's told me about, but thats been pretty vague. i bugged him at first about bringing me my invite, but it never came. i was off yesterday. he starts his 3 weeks off today. he said he'd leave me the invite in my desk drawer. BUT if its not there its safe to skip it & not have to make any excuses!