How To Be A Lady (Who Shreds)

Wed, Jul 11, 2012 at 1:56 AM By: v. hrndz



"Because sports were and continue to be defined by men, they are shot through with certain stereotypes that are internalised by both sexes. “The major stereotype is still this ‘masculinisation’ of women who play sports and that this masculanisation leads directly into ‘lesbianism,’” says Balbier. “You cannot be a ‘beautiful’ wrestler or even a ‘beautiful’ boxer because even though we try to get out of our gender perspectives, we can’t… We still see certain sports that don’t fulfill our own perceptions or images of femininity. And that is why many people really don’t want to watch women box, for example. It takes such a long time to establish new images.

But while the Industrial Revolution meant physical liberation for well-to-do men, it meant the opposite for their wives and daughters. The prevailing medical dogmas of the time dictated that the ‘nature of women’ was determined by a fixed degree of energy for all their endeavours (mental, physical, emotional, etc.). This theory meshed well with the bourgeois Victorian ideal of the idle, porcelain-doll woman whose role in society was to look good, be the moral heart of the family, show off her husband’s wealth through the purchase of expensive items and make babies. The last point is paramount because it has often been a reason, overt or underlying, to exclude women from sports."

more of the article can be read here ( via HUCK magazine)

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    On Wed, Jul 11, 2012 at 8:22 AM, Mista PP said:

    I should say "nice fancy things provided to them by their man", and I don't mean to say folks shouldn't have nice fancy things, just the mentality of "shower me with gifts because I'm a lady"...

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    On Wed, Jul 11, 2012 at 7:28 AM, Mista PP said:

    We went bike riding a few weekends ago, and my 10 year old daughter wanted to try riding down this flight of 6 or 7 stairs. My initial, internal reaction was "No, because your mom will kill me if you get hurt", but I'm all about teaching my kids how to ascertain acceptable risk, so I told her to go for it (and only suggested to not lean forward or turn the bike while on the stairs). She rode down them perfectly, and repeatedly. :)

    From my perspective, this subject gets more complicated when a woman *wants* to do things, like compete in sports which were defined by men (which my lady does, 4 times a week) but then expects to be "treated like a lady" (doors held open, nice fancy things, etc.). As a guy, it can be difficult to reconcile these things coming from the same person. I'm just sayin'...

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